17 August 2013
TRUTH
I'M SO FED UP WITH THESE PEOPLE IN MY LIFE WHO CLAIM TO BE TRUTHFUL AND BLUNT AND THEY PRIDE THEMSELVES IN BEING SOMEONE YOU ALWAYS KNOW WHERE YOU STAND WITH...WHAT THEY ARE THINKING...HOW THEY FEEL...BUT THE MOMENT YOU ARE TRUTHFUL WITH THEM IT BACKFIRES. WHY IS IT THAT THEY CAN BE BLUNT AND DELIVER THE TRUTH IN AN UNWRAPPED BLUNT FORCE OF WORDS...BUT IF THE FACTS ARE COMING OUT MY MOUTH IT HAS TO BE GENTLE AND SUGAR COATED. SHOULDN'T TWO PEOPLE WHO CAN BOTH TELL THE TRUTH BE ABLE TO HAVE A DECENT FRIENDSHIP? SHOULDN'T THAT FRIENDSHIP BE STRONG WHEN TWO PEOPLE ARE HONEST WITH EACH OTHER? SHOULDN'T I BE ABLE TO DELIVER THE SAME TRUTH WITHOUT FEELING LIKE A BITCH? OR BEING THOUGHT OF AS ONE?
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
2 comments:
Yes 100%, If someone never is blunt or rude, is a gentle person then that is how you act with them I think. You give what you get...so I am not sure what friend you are speaking of. But I think I know. If that person is rude and blunt to you says things without you really wanting to hear them. Well then that person needs to fucking learn to take their own behavior thrown back at them. When you are true friends with someone you get to be ugly, and say things you dont mean. Cause in the end that friend is still there and still loves you. Best of luck with that love.
Want proof? Look at the shit we have said to each other in Anger....still friends.
HA HA - Imagine this, Bridge and I only SORTA agree. lol
I agree that in the end true friendship sticks around through the good, bad and the ugly and usually those friendships come out even stronger once they make it through the crap and craziness.
I think that there is a time and a place for bluntness and sadly I suck at figuring out when that is because I am pretty blunt regularly. BUT one thing I have sorta "learned" or "experienced" is that when I am blunt with a person I often feel like a bitch simply because what I said was pretty much bitchy .. not that I wasn't right but that it is what it is. Make sense? And people (including us) usually can't swallow the bluntness right away and it takes a little bit for our points to sink in and hear what the person was trying to tell us and get past the tone or manner in came out in.
So maybe give your friend some time to digest the bluntness and try to sort out what was said. I have no clue who your speaking of so this may be worthless food for thought but its all I got tonight.
Luff you.
Post a Comment